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When Covid-19 hit, my narcissistic partner started getting even more abusive.

I made a plan to get my dogs, my children and myself out and NEVER GO BACK in May 2020.  It was the best decision I ever made.  Now I am using my personal and professional experience to help other smart, savvy women get out, stay out and be even stronger AFTER abuse.

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